What if you woke up one morning, like I did this morning, and the sun was streaming in your bedroom windows, and you knew it was the first day of your two week vacation and you had nothing scheduled?
Well, I pondered this as Cookie stretched her body, began to slurp water, and politely asked to be let out of the room for her morning ablutions. I went downstairs, started the morning coffee, and picked up the morning newspapers.
Cookie comes first, so I took her for a spin around the block and then settled in with the South Bay paper where the garage sales are listed. Julia Cameron in The Artists Way suggests Artists Dates and I hadn’t had one lately. I interpret her definition of the date as setting aside time to do what you enjoy doing most. In my case, that is a morning of thrifts and estate sales. There were three estate sales and two garage sales within a few miles, and I printed out my maps from MapQuest.
What fun, I told myself, and I said a quick prayer of intention that I find some craft supplies or something totally wonderful that was inexpensive and I could take home and either morph it into something else—or just enjoy it before I passed it on. Thrifts are not an emotional journey for me per se, but estate sales are. I project my own kids selling off my belongings they don’t need or want, and I feel a sense of poignancy about the symbolism of our possessions remaining when we are gone. You can tell a lot about the people by the things they collected, their decor, clothing, etc. I try to imagine what the people had been like. I always do a quick thank you in my head because whatever it is that I end up with is something that once had meaning for them. If it’s not a company doing the sale, the children or family of the deceased almost always are amenable to telling their loved ones stories while you browse. I’m probably rationalizing, but when I do the estate sales, it feels like a sacred task to me somehow.
Here is Cookie observing our treasures on the patio late this afternoon.

At the first estate sale in Redondo Beach, I bought a great old woven sewing basket with a lid, which was actually filled with cloth scraps left over from an exquisite hand-made king-size quilt which was also for sale. I didn’t need the quilt, but it came with several handmade pillows and a handmade mirror to match for $50. How I wish I had needed it. My total? $2.00.
The garage sale blew me away—a couple my age in Torrance who were downsizing—and most of what they were selling weren’t things I needed. But, I did get a real treasure, however—a white ceramic statue of Kwan Yin, and a nice picture frame which I’ll put a SoulCollage card in and give to a friend. Total? $3.00
Next I swung by the Palos Verdes Thrift Shop in Lomita which splits its profits with several schools and charities in the area. They always have all kinds of craft supplies and ephemera in one cabinet—and I found sequined hearts, lace, ribbons, a brand new tube of Elmers Stix All, and a rustic red plastic pitcher I’ll make into a flower arrangement. Total? $2.75
Next came the Little Company of Mary Hospital Thrift Shop in Torrance. There were all kinds of junk and treasures which I didn’t need, but I've found some wonderful surprises there in the past. I did take a picture of a funky flower-covered spring straw hat. I asked a stuffed bear to pose. I did buy, however, something totally whacky I did not need—this hand-painted tin mask, and a lacy heart to use as a piece of art. Total? $7.40.
Then up the hill on Narbonne to an estate sale on Sunnyslope Dr. in Rolling Hills Estates. This family was really into golf, owls, lighthouses, books and crystal. A young woman was there buying boxes of crystal glasses for very reasonable prices, although one cabinet of Waterford glass had been appraised at $4,000! As for me, I bought a nice blue ceramic pot, a very neglected Christmas cactus in another gorgeous pot, and an egg timer. Total? $6.75.
My warrior princess mask, shown here back at the Little Company of Mary Thrift Shop among other treasures for sale, was my most whimsical purchase. She's going on a wall above a lounge on my patio as a reminder to lighten up. Kwan Yin, however, was a special synchronicity.
Now, my rules of the thrift shop/estate sale shopping are: I bought 16 items, admittedly some very, very small to be used in art projects. But—now I have to bring 16 other items I own to a thrift shop or give them away to someone. Sometimes I put things out on my front lawn with a sign that says "Free" and whatever it is doesn't stay there long. What goes around comes around. Now, would you call this sustainability? No? Well, it sure was a fun and cheap Artist Date for me—and I met so many nice people and I heard so many wonderful stories of people’s lives.
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